A few more turns and the circle will close again.

..neither you nor I mind, but not a word about love!..

At first I thought it had just occurred to me in the context of the film, but no. Probably not. Delving deeper into myself, I realize that it’s about women around 30-40 years old. Because…

“We have outpaced the light,
We have outsmarted time,
It is clear in your eyes,
That all this is not about us.
A few more turns –
The circle will close again,
Neither you nor I mind,
But, not a word about love!
Not a word about love…”

I’ve always wondered what I’m looking for in communication? Why is it mostly with women? Because it’s easy? Maybe… but what if not? What’s the reason for communication, what are you looking for in communication? But the question also arises, what are they looking for? What are they interested in? Why with men? And I think that communication is about different things for men and women. Can we say that for a man, every woman he communicates with is perceived as a potential partner? I think so. Not least of all, this is why you can critically perceive the issue of children who were born to someone or have. That is, biologically, your inner “I” says “this is not an option.” This is what our reaction is based on.

If we look through sexuality, that is, perceive every other person as a potential sexual partner, then for me there is also a certain dilemma. Because as a person who considers himself gender neutral, I should (or should it be more accurate to say we/they should?) treat men and women approximately the same in communication. And here, perhaps, it is appropriate to mention communication with Aaron, because it is more about this and that. You love a person and you are interested in communicating with them regardless of gender. It is not even about the creativity that you both have. But let’s get back to women.

I don’t think they see every interlocutor as a potential sexual partner. Because for women there are, somewhat, more criteria regarding people who may interest them sexually. A larger selection. But a woman wants to be seen as unique. To be admired. It doesn’t matter so much whether you love her or whether you have some goals of your own – the main thing for her is that she sees herself in a separate place. I learned to use this, because at the same time you get what you need in return – communication with a person who is interested in you. The Greek with him is that this interest is based on internal chemical processes that occur beyond the understanding of this woman herself. But well…

“..soon the morning will come
Suddenly, as always,
And the snows will melt again –
There will be plenty of water…”

People lose their sincerity as they age. They have a family, children, friends, a domestic life, gatherings for holidays, and so on. They have a certain scheme in which you are not. That is, you appear in it exclusively as a kind of spice that stands on the shelf and waits for its time. The dish can be prepared without it, but with it, sometimes, it is better. But my problem is that I am looking for, for the most part, precisely this sincerity, which is impossible to find in people, because they do not need it as a characteristic.

What is my creativity? Perhaps it is an attempt to create that “ideal” person who would combine the features of both genders, without the disadvantages of either. Perhaps that is why I am Sa Crea. And it was not an accident, but the path you have to take.

What is my opinion now? I guess I’m starting to understand partnerships between men more than classic man-woman or woman-woman relationships. Why? You could write a separate post on this topic here. Maybe I’ll do it someday. As for miss…

“Listen, Miss,
Maybe
We Can Find a Compromise?
Look,
I’m Singing You an Encore,
Well, Listen, Miss,
This is for You!
Listen, Miss,
Maybe
We Can Find a Compromise?
Look,
I’m Singing You an Encore,
Well, Listen, Miss,
This is about Us!”

Ps I think that Miss here is not about a woman, but about something lost (from missing)

Original lyrics:

Ми обігнали світло,
Ми обдурили час,
В очах у Вас помітно,
Що все це не про нас.
Ще кілька поворотів –
Замкнеться коло знов,
Ні ви, ні я не проти,
Але, ні слова про любов!
Ні слова про любов…

Приспів:
Послухайте, Mіss,
Можливо,
Ми знайдемо компроміс?
Дивіться,
Я співаю Вам на біс,
Ну, послухайте, Mіss,
Це для Вас!
Послухайте, Mіss,
Можливо,
Ми знайдемо компроміс?
Дивіться,
Я співаю Вам на біс,
Ну, послухайте, Mіss,
Це про нас!

А скоро прийде ранок
Зненацька, як завжди,
І знов сніги розтануть –
Буде багато води…
Ні ви, ні я не проти
Замкнути коло знов,
Ще кілька поворотів
І дотиків,
Ні слова про любов!
Але, ні слова про любов!