They say.. (opinions about dating apps)

..that he who does not seek finds. But does he then need to “find” anyone at all?

My gut feeling says that this is not what it’s all about. These are all your “dating apps”. As an experience – ok, as an end in itself… I won’t say that in real life it’s easier for you to meet someone. Maybe even the opposite. Especially for sociophobes. But, c’mon. How many normal people are there? Really. Who won’t humiliate someone (hello, my morning posts, three “ha”), who are really looking for someone, not something? Not a momentary emotion? Not a desire to assert themselves at someone’s expense?

There is an opinion that those who are really looking for someone (first/new account here) find and…disappear. All the others are people who are interesting not to find, but the vibe itself. Emotion. A feeling of endless possibilities…like “I can be with anyone”. But, let’s be objective, “with anyone” equals “with no one”. Because “..anything is possible, until a choice is made..”

I had the idea of ​​buying a permanent subscription here. It’s like “not expensive”, like “..people are interesting”. And really interesting. And really, I would like to transfer certain people from this platform to another plane of communication for myself. Those with whom we exchange ideas. Because these are really interesting people. But, at the same time, I came to the conclusion that I don’t want to be someone who “..could be with anyone”. Because this is just a fear of choice and responsibility. Namely, “your” person can happen to you anywhere. They can hit you on a crosswalk (no, what? Romance…), be your client at work. And if you happen to visit a proctologist – who knows, maybe it’s him – he’ll be the one who looks inside you and sees…something beautiful there…(you do realize that was both a pun and not, right?..).

For now, I’m here, but I think it won’t be for long. Because I don’t believe in “eternal searches,” unless it’s a search for the deep meanings of the creation of the world.