How valuable is it to be able to tell a young person that…you don’t care where she’s from. Because first of all, you know she’s from somewhere in the West, and secondly…you really, sincerely, aren’t interested. You don’t want to consider her as a partner, not as someone you’d want to meet in person someday (although you’d be interested in talking to her) – no way. Why?

Because it is at this moment that you choose yourself. You make a choice about yourself and your needs and desires. Your vision of the future. They don’t decide whether you will meet or not and why, you do. These are important steps away from devaluing yourself as a person.

And it played in my head again…

“Even if you don’t sleep every night,
Even if you paint my eyes,
Even if you walk around the world,
I won’t come to you”


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