An interesting question that I don’t have an answer to. What criteria should there be to be friends with someone and are they necessary at all?
I look at people in real life and see that they have fewer parameters or criteria for friendship. In the virtual universe, we limit ourselves to the parameters that we need for interaction. For a person to joke well, be interested in something related to what we are interested in, listen to something more or less similar and… only then do we see the point in interaction?..
Something inside tells you that you have to show something to be interesting to someone. The older you get, the more of a “multi-instrumentalist” you have to be. Jumping above your head? Yes, it’s possible. And in fact…
I think it’s enough to be yourself. And continue to create your own creative world. Creativity is something for which you will either be loved or hated. I have been convinced more than once that the most valuable people are those with whom you are in sync in creativity – when you like what another person does, and they like your creativity. This mutual inspiration gives the greatest “fruits”. I believe that this is how we will find ourselves with the same people 🙂
Sometimes I look at the numbers and see things that I don’t want. In general, these are new sites with almost no views. But I look at Threads, where there are a dozen or so people who don’t interact at all, and I understand that I don’t even need that many. Because the point is not in quantity, but in quality. And it only happens over time. So… let’s create 🙂
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I agree my friend! Mutual inspiration creates a friendship like no other.
I don’t see any point in having friends just for the sake of it.
For me at my current point in life, I feel I have enough friends to interact with.
Why try and make something that is forced or you feel you have to act a certain way.
Yes my friend, I completely agree with you! It made me feel a bit sad along with thinking about how people interact in general.
In general, I think that life itself puts friends and new acquaintances on our path, so everything has its time. I think that I should focus more on blogging and creativity to achieve new results 🙂